Jai Sri Ganesha,
The definition of love is that the one without whom you cannot live is love Surrender is not of the body but of the mind, As soon as the mind surrenders, the body surrenders automatically,
The body will always follow the mind and even if it does not stay, no problem, Gopis were physically present at home but their mind was always with Krishna, The gopis were separated from Sri Krishna for 109 years, yet their love did not end,
The love of the gopis kept on increasing, Just like the nectar came out of the churning of the ocean, similarly separation is a churning which brings out the nectar of love, Because separation is the test of love, without which we cannot live is love This is known only in separation,The one with whom we love, His absence is felt in separation, In this world, love grows by living together,
But the love that grows even in separation is true love And the love that does not grow in separation Is only a deceitful behavior,unlaloyed love is a reminder for devotees unto blissful unification,
Jai Mahadev