Jai Sri Ganesha,
Those who defeated in life are mostly victim of their own cherished and nourished weaknesses,
Doubts, indicisions and cowadices, has further add in failure in gross reality,
Anyone helps someone, and that help remains failed to impart inner strength, that is no help,
If a person is strengthen from within, it doesn't matter if no other help is given,
Jai Mahadev